Meeting Myself Again

lanesagola:

pansexualpride:

The challenge: Don’t use any gendered bathrooms or change rooms for the month of April.

What are “gendered bathrooms”? Gendered bathrooms are designated for “men” or “women” by a sign. This challenges includes ALL multi-stall and single-stall washrooms, and the bathrooms at work, schools,…

Cool idea.

I want to note, however, that trans* people are at increased risk of bladder and urinary tract infections, in part because of this restricted access to bathroom facilities. This is especially true for people who tuck and for people who pack with an inadequately cleaned STP.

So, for those of us who, come May, will still sometimes or always have to be careful about gendered bathrooms: keep in mind that we’re particularly prone to chronic UTIs. Some ways that you can avoid contracting one:

• Don’t hold your pee any longer than you have to.
• Make use of websites like safe2pee.org to find safe, non-gendered bathrooms in your area, if you can.
• Try to wear cotton underwear. It breathes better than synthetic fabrics.
• Stay hydrated as well as you can. Drinking water regularly helps flush out the pipes.
• There’s some evidence to suggest that drinking cranberry juice can help you get over a UTI quicker.
• No matter what kind of genitals you have, you should pee right after sex (if sex is your thing) if there’s been any contact near your urethra.
• If you pack with an STP, try to make sure you clean it well and clean it regularly. It’s not always possible to clean it immediately, but do what you can.

n.b. I don’t pack with an STP, and I am not capable of tucking. If folks do/are more familiar with these practices would like to add to the avoiding UTI tips list, I would definitely appreciate it.

cassket:

The following is guest post by Holly Kearl for International Anti-Street Harassment Week. Kearl is an DC-based activist and author of “Stop Street Harassment: Making Public Places Safe and Welcoming for Women.”

By age 12, nearly 1 in 4 girls experience unwanted sexual comments, leers, touches, and stalking in public places by strangers. Nearly 90 percent of women have that experience by age 19.

Street harassment teaches girls that public places are male territory and they are prey to male predators of all ages. The harassment restricts their access to public places and impedes gender equality. Street harassment—including scary amounts of violence—also disproportionately and negatively impacts LGBQT individuals.

This is unacceptable.

From March 18 to 24, more than 100 groups in 18 countries are joining thousands of individuals worldwide to collectively bring attention to the global problem of gender-based street harassment during International Anti-Street Harassment Week. Participants can choose whatever approach they think will be most effective in their community. Tactics for raising awareness range from blogging and holding group discussions to sidewalk chalking parties and street theater to posting signs in public restrooms about the harassment that transgender people face there.

See if one of the planned events is happening in your area. You can participate in many other ways, too. Suggestions include:

1. Sharing your stories on or offline,or reading/listening to other peoples’ stories
2. Tweeting stories or messages with #EndSHWeek.
3. Changing your Facebook profile picture for the week. Here is an image in English and you can visit the tools page to access logos in 13 languages.
4. Gathering a few friends together to create fliers to post or hand out in the community or write sidewalk messages. Here are ideas for messages and a fact sheet with statistics to pull from. Here are fliers you can print and pass out: 1 | 2. Or visit the tools page and download an 8.5×11 size flier in 5 languages. Scroll down that page and there are also bystander posters and posters about the harassment of transgender individuals in public restrooms.

I hope you’ll Meet us on the Street this week and help us collectively bring attention to this human rights issue and work to create safer and more welcoming public spaces for the next generation.