About Me

A Quote

If owning a gun and knowing how to use it worked, the military would be the safest place for a woman. It’s not.

If women covering up their bodies worked, Afghanistan would have a lower rate of sexual assault than Polynesia. It doesn’t.

If not drinking alcohol worked, children would not be raped. They are.

If your advice to a woman to avoid rape is to be the most modestly dressed, soberest and first to go home, you may as well add “so the rapist will choose someone else”.

If your response to hearing a woman has been raped is “she didn’t have to go to that bar/nightclub/party” you are saying that you want bars, nightclubs and parties to have no women in them. Unless you want the women to show up, but wear kaftans and drink orange juice. Good luck selling either of those options to your friends.

Or you could just be honest and say that you don’t want less rape, you want (even) less prosecution of rapists.

Meeting Myself Again

anotherjen:

mallamun:

gatisss:

jesusfuck

I don’t know where this is from, but…

Between this and that Toyota commercial-

Man, I hope genderfuckery of this highly attractive magnitude just INVADES popular media until privileged heteronormative cismen who unthinkingly dominate the world around them through objectification of women and shaming of homosexuality are forced to think.

Forced to think because when they see an attractive ass in panties, they can no longer instinctively flap their dicks at it and say, “I’d own that” without having to think about gender or sexuality. Torn between their habit of reflexively objectifying women and gay-shaming themselves and others, they would have no choice but to open their eyes a little wider and actually think about the people they share the world with instead of living in a neverending reel of imagery that reinforces a narrow reality where they are king.

hhnnnngh

(Source: eberles)

icantrememberthesolution:

(( whispers to followers I will tag ANYTHING you ask me to. Anything at all. if it’s a trigger or makes you uncomfortable or something like that or even if you just don’t want to see it, I wILL tag it for you and not be upset about you asking me to tag a thing. Don’t be afraid to ask me to tag things for you ok))

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wolframandalpha:

murtunacaptor:

baliset:

zillydun:

saccharinescorpion:

okay so this is totally awesome and sweet but i can’t help but be a little confused and intrigued as to the meaning of some of those icons
“my gender is Half a Skirt.” “i identify as a really lazy jumping jack”

 I said this on Facebook but
I honestly do not understand the spread legs female icon what gender expression is that??? Strong Female Who Don’t Need No Man????
?????????

my gender is Fast Wheelchair Guy

I’ll have you know I’ve been laughing at this for at least five solid minutes.

The genger spectrum: “regular female,” “regular male,” “SLUT,” “lesbian,” “gay man,” “ambigiously oriented wheelchair user,” “ambiguously oriented superfast wheelchair user.”

wolframandalpha:

murtunacaptor:

baliset:

zillydun:

saccharinescorpion:

okay so this is totally awesome and sweet but i can’t help but be a little confused and intrigued as to the meaning of some of those icons

“my gender is Half a Skirt.” “i identify as a really lazy jumping jack”

 I said this on Facebook but

I honestly do not understand the spread legs female icon what gender expression is that??? Strong Female Who Don’t Need No Man????

?????????

my gender is Fast Wheelchair Guy

I’ll have you know I’ve been laughing at this for at least five solid minutes.

The genger spectrum: “regular female,” “regular male,” “SLUT,” “lesbian,” “gay man,” “ambigiously oriented wheelchair user,” “ambiguously oriented superfast wheelchair user.”

(Source: humansofnewyork)

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onii-chanithurts:

LOOK AT THAT LITTLE CUTIE OMG

onii-chanithurts:

LOOK AT THAT LITTLE CUTIE OMG

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ladiesmakingcomics:



It’s true that “whore” is a powerfully charged word with many layers of socio-economic meaning, and can be distracting, so I’ve prepared a quick flowchart to simplify it.


Luke McKinney over at Cracked has dropped some truth bombs about “fake fangirls”, as well as general good advice, and we appreciate him for it.

ladiesmakingcomics:

It’s true that “whore” is a powerfully charged word with many layers of socio-economic meaning, and can be distracting, so I’ve prepared a quick flowchart to simplify it.

Luke McKinney over at Cracked has dropped some truth bombs about “fake fangirls”, as well as general good advice, and we appreciate him for it.

amouremeline:

saying “how can you be sad when people have it so much worse than you” is as ridiculous as “how can you be happy when people have it so much better than you”

(Source: yall)

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fauxboy:


I would totally put my face 4 inches from her chest and scream, “I’M SO HAPPY RIGHT NOW!” And I’d make a point never to take my eyes off her boobs until she got so uncomfortable and creeped out that she decided to leave, go back home, sit on her bed in the dark, and think about how completely stupid she was to write “STILL NOT ASKING FOR IT” while asking for it.




But she’s not asking for it. This is a human body, nothing more, nothing less. It’s not being sexualized, in fact, she’s covered her nipples too. I’m sorry, h-plus, that you feel that your body and the body of other women should be considered a disgrace. Do you feel uncomfortable when looking at pictures in the doctor’s office of a woman’s naked body? And do you, leftybegone, get uncontrollably horny at the same sight? Control your python (or garden snake), man, you’re not 12. Have some maturity over the matter. If you did that to that woman, leftybegone, you’d just be putting a bad face on us guys, making us seem like sex-crazed, immature horndogs. Maybe you are one, but I’m tired people making that assumption of us as a gender. It’s disgraceful. She wouldn’t think it was stupid of her to do that if you did. You’d just make her movement more powerful.

Rape (noun):the crime of forcing another person to submit to sex acts, especially sexual intercourse.
Men aren’t primal fucking animals. They’re humans that are completely capable of resisting their urges. I bet you (leftybegone) are a kid with some serious hormones since you, obviously, can’t control yourself.
“She was asking for it”. Really? Can you really blame an individual for someone else’s lack of control? The mere fact that a woman is more likely to be assaulted if she wears certain types of clothing does not make it right. She could walk around naked and that still doesn’t excuse rape. The solution to the problem is not for women to “dress less slutty” but for men to realize that a woman’s choice of dress is not an open invitation to sexual assault.

but then again, its kind like putting a meat suit on and telling a shark not to eat you

We (men) are not fucking sharks!
We are not rabid animals living off of pure instinct
We are capapble of rational thinking and understanding. 
Just because someone is cooking food doesn’t mean you’re entitled to eat it. 
Just because a banker is counting money doesn’t mean you’re being given free money.
Just because a person is naked doesn’t mean you’re entitled to fuck them. 
You are not entitled to someone else’s body just because it’s exposed. 
What is so fucking difficult about this concept?
Quite frankly, any man or woman who agrees with that bullshit concept that men are rabid animals who can’t control where their dick goes are enemies.
You are pro rape, plain and simple.
You are actively advocating that rape is a-okay.
You are just as bad as rapists, because you 100% enabling rapists.
The only person at fault is the fucking RAPIST
The RAPIST ACTIVELY CHOOSES to violate and maim somebody.
And you sick fucks are ACTIVELY CHOOSING TO SAY THAT IS AN OKAY ACTIVITY.


this is good commentary

fauxboy:


I would totally put my face 4 inches from her chest and scream, “I’M SO HAPPY RIGHT NOW!” And I’d make a point never to take my eyes off her boobs until she got so uncomfortable and creeped out that she decided to leave, go back home, sit on her bed in the dark, and think about how completely stupid she was to write “STILL NOT ASKING FOR IT” while asking for it.

But she’s not asking for it. This is a human body, nothing more, nothing less. It’s not being sexualized, in fact, she’s covered her nipples too. I’m sorry, h-plus, that you feel that your body and the body of other women should be considered a disgrace. Do you feel uncomfortable when looking at pictures in the doctor’s office of a woman’s naked body? And do you, leftybegone, get uncontrollably horny at the same sight? Control your python (or garden snake), man, you’re not 12. Have some maturity over the matter. If you did that to that woman, leftybegone, you’d just be putting a bad face on us guys, making us seem like sex-crazed, immature horndogs. Maybe you are one, but I’m tired people making that assumption of us as a gender. It’s disgraceful. She wouldn’t think it was stupid of her to do that if you did. You’d just make her movement more powerful.

Rape (noun):the crime of forcing another person to submit to sex acts, especially sexual intercourse.

Men aren’t primal fucking animals. They’re humans that are completely capable of resisting their urges. I bet you (leftybegone) are a kid with some serious hormones since you, obviously, can’t control yourself.

“She was asking for it”. Really? Can you really blame an individual for someone else’s lack of control? The mere fact that a woman is more likely to be assaulted if she wears certain types of clothing does not make it right. She could walk around naked and that still doesn’t excuse rape. The solution to the problem is not for women to “dress less slutty” but for men to realize that a woman’s choice of dress is not an open invitation to sexual assault.

but then again, its kind like putting a meat suit on and telling a shark not to eat you

We (men) are not fucking sharks!

We are not rabid animals living off of pure instinct

We are capapble of rational thinking and understanding. 

Just because someone is cooking food doesn’t mean you’re entitled to eat it. 

Just because a banker is counting money doesn’t mean you’re being given free money.

Just because a person is naked doesn’t mean you’re entitled to fuck them. 

You are not entitled to someone else’s body just because it’s exposed. 

What is so fucking difficult about this concept?

Quite frankly, any man or woman who agrees with that bullshit concept that men are rabid animals who can’t control where their dick goes are enemies.

You are pro rape, plain and simple.

You are actively advocating that rape is a-okay.

You are just as bad as rapists, because you 100% enabling rapists.

The only person at fault is the fucking RAPIST

The RAPIST ACTIVELY CHOOSES to violate and maim somebody.

And you sick fucks are ACTIVELY CHOOSING TO SAY THAT IS AN OKAY ACTIVITY.

this is good commentary

(Source: wildcatmary)

this year……

infinitecombinations:

Since the start of 2012 I have:

Gotten a new piercing.

Dyed my hair.

Ended a relationship.

Started a new relationship.

Been on a long car journey. 

Passed an exam.

Cried on someone’s shoulder.

Had a massive fight with a boyfriend/girlfriend.

Received flowers.

Had a Valentine.

Written a letter using pen and paper.

Gone to see a therapist.

Been prescribed medication by a doctor.

Read a really good book.

Gone to the zoo.

Spent too much money on unnecessary things.

Traveled by train.

Cried over a member of the opposite/same sex.

Spent a day out in the sun getting a tan.

Slammed a door out of frustration.

Had an anxiety attack.

Had a BBQ. 

Gone to the fair.

Gone bowling.

Seen a film at the cinema in 3D.

Gone on a date.

Been the only sober one on a night out.

Helped someone home after they’d had too much to drink.

Stayed up all night.

Talked on the phone for over 2 hours.

Supported someone who’d received bad news.

Watched some kind of live sporting event.

Read an entire book in one day. 

Bought a DVD the day it was released.

Eaten McDonald’s more than four times in a single week.

Cried as a result of exam stress.

Met some incredible new people.

Fallen backwards off a chair. 

Broken my glasses.

Cried over someone in my past.

Spent hours aimlessly browsing the internet.

Thrown up.

Cried over a film.

Gone out of my way to avoid an ex-boy/girlfriend.

Fought with someone in public.

Been in a relationship for a year or longer.

(Source: c0rpulent)

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